These moments are called sliding door moments after the movie sliding doors.
Brene brown sliding doors.
Here s a passage from daring greatly one of my favorite books written by one of my favorite authors brene brown.
Brene brown s research describes how she sees the paradox of trust.
Read on what i ve found through research is that trust is built in very small moments which i call sliding door moments.
Dr gottman says in any interaction there is a possibility of connection with your partner or turning away from your partner in the following clip dr gottman shares an example of a sliding door moment in his relationship with his wife.
This speech was originally delivered at ucla s royce hall in 2015.
Gottman calls these the sliding door moments.
Trust is something that i battle with and i know many of you do too.
Okay you read the title of this post and thought what is a sliding door moment and why are my vows such a moment good question.
I feel like i have a relationship with many of you on social media and you.
Every time we choose courage we make everyone around us a little better and the world a little braver.
To choose not to connect when the opportunity is there is a betrayal.
Remembering the names of family members.
He argues that trust is one of those sliding door moments saying there is the opportunity to build trust and there is the opportunity to betray.
Brown provides the following as examples of small ways that trust is built.
Marble jar friends sliding door moments.
Brené brown is a professor and social scientist.
Oh it just feels like an incredible understatement to say how grateful i am to be here with all of you.